A Possible Mother

I’ve heard a lot about the concept of “imposter syndrome” when referring to one’s professional life, but I haven’t yet stumbled upon it being associated with being a mother. But today someone told me that I was “the perfect mother”, and I wanted to literally hide under a rock. Sometimes I don’t feel like a proper mother at all, let alone a perfect one.

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Happy Mother's Day <3

Wherever you stand in the spectrum of your relationship with your mother, or as a mother, I hope that you experience some peace today. If you’re a father who’s also a mother, or a mother who’s also a father - do not ever forget that you are a hero. If you’re a mom, I wish that you put any guilty feelings aside today and just pat yourself on the back, because it is hard, and you’re doing a wonderful job.

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My VBAC birthing experience

Little over a year ago, I gave birth to my daughter L. Throughout my pregnancy I had hoped for a VBAC (Vaginal Birth After C-section), and that is what I got. During her birth, I'd overhear the doctor saying words like "trauma" and "catastrophe". It took me 7 weeks after her birth to start processing what those words meant. (Trigger warning: This post talks about obstetric violence in detail - with, nonetheless, a happy ending. Only click through if you feel ok with reading it.)

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Praised be the probiotics!

Did you know that a woman can begin nutritionally prepping her baby's microbiome during pregnancy? By consuming probiotic-rich foods and/or supplements, especially in the 3rd trimester, she increases the balance of beneficial bacteria that are present in her birth canal and breast milk. If born vaginally and/or breast fed, this will help her newborn begin populating their own beneficial microbes.

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Alcohol consumption during pregnancy and beyond

Back to the topic of "obvious things to avoid during pregnancy" (read my post about caffeine here), let's talk about alcohol. It's a controversial topic, so here's a disclaimer: My intention isn't to point a finger at anyone. I believe that there is a lot of misinformation and taboo regarding the subject, and all I'm trying to do is pass on evidence-based information.

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ETEPET- What?

When we lived in Paris, YY and I had the habit of going to a farmer’s market every Saturday. It was great and we would buy organic produce for fairly cheap (before they decided to ridiculously up the prices overnight). Since moving to Munich, however, we have struggled to find something similar.

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